Rarely, if ever, do I get personal with these blog posts. The message of the Bible is more important than my life and I try to put the focus on God. This post will be slightly different because I want to talk about my mom for a moment and honor her memory.

She died February 23, 2011 from cancer. Since that time, there are a few things that has crossed my mind that I want to share with you all.

• The grief never goes away.

People often think that if enough time passes, the sorrow will pass with it. It doesn’t. And I am of the opinion that it shouldn’t. I shed tears thinking about mom and others that have passed on. Grief allows us to remember God and His love for us. While we are at our lowest, God is the still the highest. I am reminded through my grief to “cast all my care upon Him because He cares for me” (1 Peter 5:7).

Also, don’t be ashamed to lean on your spouse for strength and support. We don’t have to carry our burdens alone (Galatians 6:2).

• Be the parent that your children will remember and honor.

I know that someday it will be my kids that think about me long after I’m gone. How do you want your kids to remember you? I think about the times mom encouraged me, saved me from myself, and even used the wooden spoon on my backside! As parents, are we taking the time to instill life lessons that our kids will never forget? Are we letting moments pass, thinking we have more time? I hope my son remembers the times I played catch with him. I hope my oldest daughter remembers the lack of patience I had teaching her how to drive (although she is a great driver). I hope my youngest remembers the photo booth pictures we took when we didn’t want to ride Space Mountain. Be the parent your child remembers.

• Be mindful of the spiritual life of your children.

The one thing that mom made sure of was that I was in worship services every time the doors were opened. Even when she was tired from working all day, we didn’t miss a Wednesday night Bible study. I know that she was so proud of me becoming a preacher. God was important to her and He is important to me. There is no greater gift a parent can give a child than to introduce them to the God of all creation! Don’t squander this gift!

As I’ve said before, death is no respecter of persons. Families will always deal with the grief, the loss, and the memories. In the dark times, rely on God and His word. Find comfort from those around you. Develop a deeper faith in God.

Thank you for taking the time to read this post and allowing me to honor the memory of my mother.

By: Justin Odom